Once
you’re pregnant, you are going to have to make some changes
to your lifestyle immediately. Do you ever worry that you won’t
be a good parent to your child? Well, the opportunity to prove
to yourself that you will be an excellent parent starts now, in
pregnancy. By making the right decisions for your developing child
every day—in what you eat, what you cut out of your life,
and how you spend your time—you are making the first steps
in being the great parent you want to be.
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Nutrition
In a way—yes—you are eating for two. But what you might not realize
is your tiny baby only needs about 300 extra calories per day. So, while it’s
a great idea to double up on all of the important nutrients you need, you don’t
have to double the caloric intake. The great news about nutrition during pregnancy
is you have the ability to play a little part in your child’s destiny.
By eating right and feeding yourself and your fetus all of the necessary nutrients,
you can take control of your child’s future health and set a strong foundation
that will give you reason to be confident in a healthy infant, healthy toddler
and healthy child.
A balanced and healthy diet during pregnancy can have long-lasting
effects on your baby—even encouraging healthy habits into
adulthood. More immediately, you’ll promote fetal brain development,
reduce the risk of certain defects, and increase your baby’s
birth weight with the right nutrition.
Getting the right amount of calories is a major aspect of eating
well for your developing child. Early on in your pregnancy, you
might not need as many as 300 calories extra…but later on,
you might need even more. Of course, it all depends on your bodyweight
and specific needs. So, although 300 extra calories is a rough
estimate, it’s really best to talk to your healthcare provider
about the appropriate amount of extra calories for you.
The following is a list of what you need to eat, every day:
- Vitamin C
- Protein
- Calcium
- Iron
- Whole grains
If you eat lots of colorful vegetables, including extra dark,
leafy vegetables as well as at least three servings of fruit, you’re
on your way to a healthy pregnancy. Also, build up good bones to
get you through pregnancy by getting plenty of calcium—but
the calcium is also important for the bones of your developing
child. If you’re lactose intolerant or don’t eat dairy
products, check out this
information on alternative sources of calcium. It’s very
crucial to have enough protein during pregnancy so that all of
the cells that are growing so rapidly and forming your baby will
be strong, and have enough amino acids (the building blocks that
make up protein but also build cells). You might have to cut out
some of your favorite treats during pregnancy, and raw fish is
the number one food to go. Sushi and sashimi as well as raw oysters
and seared tuna and all uncooked seafood can lead to complications
and illness in your fetus. The FDA recommends that pregnant women
avoid eating any fish more than twice a week, and completely avoid
such fish as shark, swordfish and king mackerel due to the high
levels of mercury present in these fish. Too much mercury from
fish can build up in your body and harm the nervous system of your
developing fetus.
Get enough fluids, especially water, in your diet. You should
already be drinking eight glasses (64 oz.) of water every day,
but if you aren’t a conscientious fluid drinker, now is the
time to start. Not only is your body made mostly of water, but
so is your baby’s. And that means you need to make sure your
baby has enough water to grow and be healthy, just like you need
enough water to grow and be healthy. So get yourself a great big
jug, or a trendy thermos, and keep filling it up…all day
long. You can also get some fluids throughout the day from other
drinks, including milk (two-thirds water—great way to get
calcium, too), juices (get your vitamins in as well), sparkling
water and even (decaffeinated) iced tea. But, steer clear of sugar-loaded
fluids and avoid soda. Enough fluids, especially if the majority
is water, will also:
- Alleviate constipation
- Help your skin feel soft/ clear up your skin
- Relieve swelling
- Reduce risk of urinary
tract infections
- Flush out waste and harmful toxins in your system
When it comes to fluids, caffeine-laden drinks are not recommended
for pregnant women. In fact, caffeine is generally advised against
because it worsens symptoms of pregnancy such as nausea. The effects
caffeine has on your developing fetus are not clear, and the subject
is often debated. We do know that caffeine is a stimulant, and
a drug, and it’s not going to improve your child’s
health. Don’t forget there’s caffeine in lots of places
you wouldn’t expect, including chocolate.
Everywhere you turn, you probably see more stringent diet guidelines
for pregnant women asking you to count calories, optimize every
meal, and constantly think about eating for the baby. And while
eating for the baby is very important, and getting the right amount
of nutrients is equally as important, pregnancy can be an already
stressful time and the added pressure of sticking to a diet may
just put you over the edge. So, whether you need to indulge in
a little chocolate or a cheeseburger to help you deal with a tough
day, or whether you don’t have the energy to prepare dark
vegetables with every meal, the right diet is up to you to create,
on your own terms. Just make sure that you eat enough food—not
getting enough calories can be very damaging to your child’s
health—and get plenty of the right nutrients for your child.
All women freak out when they realize they really are going to
gain weight during pregnancy—and a lot of it. But gaining
weight is a natural part of the process, and cutting out calories,
fasting (even for religious reasons) or dieting will only hurt
your baby’s health—and your own. For these nine months,
stay away from dieting and surrender to the fact that you’re
going to gain weight, and it’s okay. If you think of your
baby’s developing body every time you go to eat (or not eat),
you’ll most likely make the right decisions. [back
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Exercise
Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean you have to stay in bed
and avoid all forms of physical activity. Some people even believe that the
most healthy pregnancies involve some form of light to moderate physical activity
throughout the nine months. Of course, when it comes to exercise, it all depends
on you. Before you start developing a new and improved pregnancy exercise plan,
you must consult your doctor. Only your provider will be able to tell you for
sure if you can or can’t exercise. Some pregnancies are more complicated
than others, and certain physical activity can cause unnecessary risks. In
these cases, the doctor will probably recommend rest in lieu of a trip to the
gym. If your provider says exercise isn’t for you, don’t be too
bummed out—it’s an excuse to take it easy for nine months, and
you might think of it as a blessing for your stress level and for the health
of your little baby-to-be.
For the rest of the women who get the a-okay from
the doctor on the exercising factor, it’s time to start preparing for
the workout. Exercise when you’re
pregnant is much different from exercise when you aren’t pregnant. First
things first: you’re bigger. So, that means you might have to forego
the cute tank-tops and spandex for a more comfortable gym get-up that includes
a supportive maternity bra.
The next thing : take it easy. If you’re not an experienced
athlete, then that means take it extra easy. Let’s face
it—you weren’t a marathon runner before you got pregnant,
you’re certainly not going to be one while you’re pregnant.
Keep the over-ambitious exercise goals until after the baby is
born (if you find the time!), and take up an activity that is low-impact,
healthy and fun. The best options for you are brisk walks (which
can be taken tandem with other pregnant mothers), swimming (in
moderate temperature water), and low-impact activities at the gym
such as the stationary bike, step machine, elliptical (great for
low-impact exercise) and low-intensity weight training. All of
these activities should be undertaken according to your own preference,
and at your own pace. Don’t ever think of exercise during
pregnancy as “pushing yourself.” Instead, think of
it as giving yourself time to de-stress and strengthen your health.
You can incorporate relaxation into your exercise routine by choosing
activities you enjoy, like aqua-aerobics; or relaxation-focused
exercises, like prenatal yoga.
If you’re an experienced athlete, you’ll need to cut
back on the exercise regimen you enjoyed as a non-pregnant woman.
For example, if you’re a runner it’s recommended that
you keep your training to under two miles a day and refrain from
sprinting. You can find other forms of activity, such as walking
and swimming, to help you get a good workout. Every woman’s
body is different, and some women who are in excellent shape may
be able to continue with semi-strenuous work-outs well into their
pregnancy. The only safe bet when it comes to determining your
exercising guidelines is to talk to your doctor and find out what
your personal situation is.
One exercise that every pregnant woman
should try to incorporate into her routine is the Kegel exercise.
The Kegel exercise is designed to strengthen your pelvic floor.
Kegels are very beneficial for strengthening before labor, for
retaining bladder control and for increasing sexual pleasure
particularly after birth. These exercises are quite simple and
can be done anywhere. You only have to squeeze your vaginal muscles
(the same sensation of holding in your urine) and let go, repeatedly.
Try to flex for certain amounts of time, and then let go. [back
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Pregnancy and high blood pressure
Some women who have never had high blood pressure in their life develop it during
pregnancy. Women are at an even greater risk of developing high blood pressure
during the last three months of pregnancy.
If you are diagnosed with hypertension, you will need to keep
a close eye on your heart health and monitor your blood pressure.
Speak to your physician about other steps you can take to lower
your blood pressure, including certain medications.
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When you’re pregnant, there are some things you just can’t
get away with. In fact, some habits really need to be kicked immediately
upon finding out that you’re pregnant. That’s why,
in some cases, its better to start preparing for the pregnancy
before conception to modify your habits in advance of crunch time.
Don’t drink alcohol. Abstaining
from drinking any alcohol during pregnancy is the best choice
you can make. Just think about it: Everything you consume, your
baby consumes too. Heavy drinking during pregnancy has been linked
with fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS). Babies born with FAS tend
to have a very low birth weight, mental deficiency, deformities
(of the head and face, heart, limbs and nervous system), and
a high mortality rate. But the effects of FAS continue as the
baby grows, and can cause learning, behavioral and social problems,
particularly affecting judgment and the ability to reason between
right and wrong. Moderate drinking is also linked with some problems
including miscarriage, low birth weight, complicated labor and
delivery, stillbirth and developmental problems.
Don't smoke. Everyone knows somebody
who smoked while pregnant and popped out strapping young infants.
In fact, even Jackie Onassis Kennedy smoked when she was pregnant
back in the 50s. But, times are changing—and research shows
that smoking isn’t as glamorous as it used to be. It’s
also hazardous to the health of your infant when you smoke while
you’re pregnant—especially in the long term. Why take
the chance? Quit smoking as soon as you find out you’re pregnant
to avoid the possibility of any complications. And, you may find
that protecting your unborn child is the only motivation you ever
needed to kick the habit you’ve been trying to stop for years.
Smoking during pregnancy has been linked with:
- Preterm birth
- Low birthweight
- Shorter length of newborn
- Cleft palate and cleft lip
- Smaller head
- Stillbirth
- SIDS
- Other infant illnesses
- Long-term intellectual and physical problems in baby
- Respiratory disease in newborn/child
If you’ve been smoking during your pregnancy, it’s
not too late to quit. Some studies show if you quit smoking before
the third month of pregnancy, you will be able to reduce the risk
to that of a non-smoker. Because of all of the risks associated
with cigarette smoke, as a non-smoker, you should avoid secondhand
smoke as well. Your partner should quit smoking to help promote
a healthy environment for you and the baby. By quitting smoking
and creating a smoke-free environment for your newborn infant,
you’ll be planning ahead to make your baby’s first
days of life easy, comfortable and healthy.
Don't use drugs. If
you use drugs for fun, stop now that you’re pregnant. If
you have a dependency, it may be more difficult for you to cut
out your drug use—but it’s
essential. All illegal drugs are harmful to your baby. They
are foreign, and in many cases toxic, substances you will be
sharing with your baby every time you put them into your body.
Some women continue to smoke marijuana throughout pregnancy
because they believe it’s less harmful than cigarettes.
Although marijuana does not produce the same risks as cigarette
smoke for pregnancy, it has its own slew of health risks to
contend with. Marijuana use during pregnancy has been linked
with:
- Excessive weight gain
- Severe vomiting
- Complicated labor and delivery
- Respiratory problems in the baby
- Birth defects or cancer in the baby
- Symptoms similar to fetal alcohol syndrome
- Miscarriage
- Stillbirth
Most illegal drugs, including marijuana and cocaine, cross the
placenta—which means they are shared with your baby. Cocaine
is particularly damaging to a baby and can cause miscarriage, dangerous
bleeding, premature labor, stillbirth, long-term health conditions,
and even addiction in the baby—the effects of continual cocaine
use on an unborn child are plentiful. Every illegal drug is bad
for your pregnancy and can cause serious health problems in your
child. If you can’t stop drug use immediately, talk with
your doctor or a counselor to help you quit. It’s the least
you can do for your child. [back
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