There
are lots of ways to combat bad feelings about your body. With a healthy
body image, you will be able to focus on important things in your
life and to feel more confident about yourself, not to mention have
more fun!
Some ideas for helping to feel good about how you look
include:
- Focus on the positive – Think about all the great
things your body does for you, from breathing to digesting dinner.
Appreciate
your body for all of the work it does to keep you alive.
- Give
yourself compliments – Realize the positive things
about your appearance. When people give you compliments, think
about
them. Remind yourself everyday that you are happy with your eye
color,
your bicep muscles or the color of your hair.
- Be a fashion icon – OK,
so maybe that’s going too far,
but how you feel about how you look has a lot to do with what
you are wearing. Find clothes that flatter your body and that
you feel
good wearing. You might sometimes even splurge on something really
nice (but don’t go into lifelong debt just for a pair of
shoes!)
- Be a critical media consumer – When you are watching
TV or reading a magazine, think about the images you see. Question
the
motives of the advertisers and realize that many images probably
aren’t realistic. Have a sense of humor, and laugh at some
of the crazy things society does to sell stuff.
- Put your energy
to use elsewhere – If you spend half of
your day worrying about how people see you, or about how your
butt looks,
stop. Think about how much you could accomplish if you put that
time and energy to use on your science project, in community
service, or in planning a party!
- Don’t be so superficial – Try
to stop letting how you look dictate how you feel. It’s
nice to feel attractive, but don’t let your looks rule
your world. There is much more out there than you see in the
mirror. Most of us think what’s inside
a person—kindness, friendliness, respect for others, a
good sense of humor—is much more important than what we
see on the surface anyway.
- Enjoy a healthy lifestyle – Through
exercise, nutrition and relaxation you can balance your life
so that you optimize your health.
This website provides lots of great tips on how to get you started
on the right track. And don’t forget that healthy DOES
NOT mean skinny!
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