Once
you’re pregnant, you are going to have to make some changes
to your lifestyle immediately. Do you ever worry that you won’t
be a good parent to your child? Well, the opportunity to prove to
yourself that you will be an excellent parent starts now, in pregnancy.
By making the right decisions for your developing child every day—in
what you eat, what you cut out of your life, and how you spend
your time—you are making the first steps in being the great
parent you want to be.
Nutrition
Exercise
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Nutrition
In a way—yes—you are eating for two. But what you might
not realize is your tiny baby only needs about 300 extra calories
per day. So, while it’s a great idea to double up on all
of the important nutrients you need, you don’t have to double
the caloric intake. The great news about nutrition during pregnancy
is you have the ability to play a little part in your child’s
destiny. By eating right and feeding yourself and your fetus all
of the necessary nutrients, you can take control of your child’s
future health and set a strong foundation that will give you reason
to be confident in a healthy infant, healthy toddler and healthy
child.
A balanced and healthy diet during pregnancy can have long-lasting
effects on your baby—even encouraging healthy habits into
adulthood. More immediately, you’ll promote fetal brain development,
reduce the risk of certain defects, and increase your baby’s
birth weight with the right nutrition.
Getting the right amount
of calories is a major aspect of eating well for your developing
child. Early on in your pregnancy, you
might not need as many as 300 calories extra…but later on,
you might need even more. Of course, it all depends on your bodyweight
and
specific needs. So, although 300 extra calories is a rough estimate,
it’s really best to talk to your healthcare provider about
the appropriate amount of extra calories for you.
The following
is a list of what you need to eat, every day:
- Vitamin C
- Protein
- Calcium
- Iron
- Whole grains
If you eat lots of colorful vegetables,
including extra dark, leafy vegetables
as well as at least three servings of
fruit, you’re on your way to a healthy
pregnancy. Also, build up good bones to
get you through pregnancy by getting plenty
of calcium—but the calcium is also
important for the bones of your developing
child. If you’re lactose intolerant
or don’t eat dairy products, check
out this
information on alternative sources
of calcium. It’s very crucial to
have enough protein during pregnancy so
that all of the cells that are growing
so rapidly and forming your baby will
be strong, and have enough amino acids
(the building blocks that make up protein
but also build cells). You might have
to cut out some of your favorite treats
during pregnancy, and raw fish is the
number one food to go. Sushi and sashimi
as well as raw oysters and seared tuna
and all uncooked seafood can lead to complications
and illness in your fetus. The FDA recommends
that pregnant women avoid eating any fish
more than twice a week, and completely
avoid such fish as shark, swordfish and
king mackerel due to the high levels of
mercury present in these fish. Too much
mercury from fish can build up in your
body and harm the nervous system of your
developing fetus.
Get enough fluids, especially water, in your diet. You should
already be drinking eight glasses (64 oz.) of water every day,
but if you
aren’t a conscientious fluid drinker, now is the time to
start. Not only is your body made mostly of water, but so is your
baby’s.
And that means you need to make sure your baby has enough water
to grow and be healthy, just like you need enough water to grow
and
be healthy. So get yourself a great big jug, or a trendy thermos,
and keep filling it up…all day long. You can also get some
fluids throughout the day from other drinks, including milk (two-thirds
water—great way to get calcium, too), juices (get your vitamins
in as well), sparkling water and even (decaffeinated) iced tea.
But, steer clear of sugar-loaded fluids and avoid soda. Enough
fluids,
especially if the majority is water, will also:
- Alleviate constipation
- Help your skin feel soft/ clear up your
skin
- Relieve swelling
- Reduce risk of urinary tract infections
- Flush out waste and
harmful toxins in your system
When it comes to fluids, caffeine-laden
drinks are not recommended for pregnant
women. In fact, caffeine is generally
advised against because it worsens symptoms
of pregnancy such as nausea. The effects
caffeine has on your developing fetus
are not clear, and the subject is often
debated. We do know that caffeine is a
stimulant, and a drug, and it’s
not going to improve your child’s
health. Don’t forget there’s
caffeine in lots of places you wouldn’t
expect, including chocolate.
Everywhere you turn, you probably see
more stringent diet guidelines for pregnant
women asking you to count calories, optimize
every meal, and constantly think about
eating for the baby. And while eating
for the baby is very important, and getting
the right amount of nutrients is equally
as important, pregnancy can be an already
stressful time and the added pressure
of sticking to a diet may just put you
over the edge. So, whether you need to
indulge in a little chocolate or a cheeseburger
to help you deal with a tough day, or
whether you don’t have the energy
to prepare dark vegetables with every
meal, the right diet is up to you to create,
on your own terms. Just make sure that
you eat enough food—not getting
enough calories can be very damaging to
your child’s health—and get
plenty of the right nutrients for your
child. All women freak out when they realize
they really are going to gain weight during
pregnancy—and a lot of it. But gaining
weight is a natural part of the process,
and cutting out calories, fasting (even
for religious reasons) or dieting will
only hurt your baby’s health—and
your own. For these nine months, stay
away from dieting and surrender to the
fact that you’re going to gain weight,
and it’s okay. If you think of your
baby’s developing body every time
you go to eat (or not eat), you’ll
most likely make the right decisions.
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Exercise
Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t
mean you have to stay in bed and avoid
all forms of physical activity. Some people
even believe that the most healthy pregnancies
involve some form of light to moderate
physical activity throughout the nine
months. Of course, when it comes to exercise,
it all depends on you. Before you start
developing a new and improved pregnancy
exercise plan, you must consult your doctor.
Only your provider will be able to tell
you for sure if you can or can’t
exercise. Some pregnancies are more complicated
than others, and certain physical activity
can cause unnecessary risks. In these
cases, the doctor will probably recommend
rest in lieu of a trip to the gym. If
your provider says exercise isn’t
for you, don’t be too bummed out—it’s
an excuse to take it easy for nine months,
and you might think of it as a blessing
for your stress level and for the health
of your little baby-to-be.
For the rest of the women who get the
a-okay from the doctor on the exercising factor, it’s time
to start preparing for the workout. Exercise when you’re
pregnant is much different from exercise when you aren’t
pregnant. First things first: you’re
bigger. So, that means you might have to forego the cute tank-tops
and spandex for a more comfortable gym get-up that includes a supportive
maternity bra.
The next thing: take it easy. If you’re
not an experienced athlete, then that
means take it extra easy. Let’s
face it—you weren’t a marathon
runner before you got pregnant, you’re
certainly not going to be one while you’re
pregnant. Keep the over-ambitious exercise
goals until after the baby is born (if
you find the time!), and take up an activity
that is low-impact, healthy and fun. The
best options for you are brisk walks (which
can be taken tandem with other pregnant
mothers), swimming (in moderate temperature
water), and low-impact activities at the
gym such as the stationary bike, step
machine, elliptical (great for low-impact
exercise) and low-intensity weight training.
All of these activities should be undertaken
according to your own preference, and
at your own pace. Don’t ever think
of exercise during pregnancy as “pushing
yourself.” Instead, think of it
as giving yourself time to de-stress and
strengthen your health. You can incorporate
relaxation into your exercise routine
by choosing activities you enjoy, like
aqua-aerobics; or relaxation-focused exercises,
like prenatal yoga.
If you’re an experienced athlete, you’ll need to cut
back on the exercise regimen you enjoyed as a non-pregnant woman.
For example, if you’re a runner it’s recommended that
you keep your training to under two miles a day and refrain from
sprinting. You can find other forms of activity, such as walking
and swimming, to help you get a good workout. Every woman’s
body is different, and some women who are in excellent shape may
be able to continue with semi-strenuous work-outs well into their
pregnancy. The only safe bet when it comes to determining your
exercising guidelines is to talk to your doctor and find out what
your personal
situation is.
One exercise that every pregnant woman
should try to incorporate into her routine
is the Kegel exercise. The Kegel exercise
is designed to strengthen your pelvic
floor. Kegels are very beneficial for
strengthening before labor, for retaining
bladder control and for increasing sexual
pleasure particularly after birth. These
exercises are quite simple and can be
done anywhere. You only have to squeeze
your vaginal muscles (the same sensation
of holding in your urine) and let go,
repeatedly. Try to flex for certain amounts
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Pregnancy and high blood pressure
Some women who have never had high blood pressure in their life develop it during
pregnancy. Women are at an even greater risk of developing high blood pressure
during the last three months of pregnancy.
If you are diagnosed with hypertension, you will need to keep
a close eye on your heart health and monitor your blood pressure.
Speak to your physician about other steps you can take to lower
your blood pressure, including certain medications.
Don’t
When you’re pregnant, there are some things you just can’t
get away with. In fact, some habits really need to be kicked immediately
upon finding out that you’re pregnant. That’s why, in
some cases, its better to start preparing for the pregnancy before
conception to modify your habits in advance of crunch time.
Don’t drink
alcohol. Abstaining from drinking
any alcohol during pregnancy is the best
choice you can make. Just think about
it: Everything you consume, your baby
consumes too. Heavy drinking during pregnancy
has been linked with fetal alcohol syndrome
(FAS). Babies born with FAS tend to have
a very low birth weight, mental deficiency,
deformities (of the head and face, heart,
limbs and nervous system), and a high
mortality rate. But the effects of FAS
continue as the baby grows, and can cause
learning, behavioral and social problems,
particularly affecting judgment and the
ability to reason between right and wrong.
Moderate drinking is also linked with
some problems including miscarriage, low
birth weight, complicated labor and delivery,
stillbirth and developmental problems.
Don't smoke. Everyone knows somebody
who smoked while pregnant and popped out strapping young infants.
In fact, even Jackie Onassis
Kennedy smoked when she was pregnant back in the 50s. But, times
are changing—and research shows that smoking isn’t
as glamorous as it used to be. It’s also hazardous to the
health of your infant when you smoke while you’re pregnant—especially
in the long term. Why take the chance? Quit smoking as soon as
you find out you’re pregnant to avoid the possibility of
any complications. And, you may find that protecting your unborn
child is the only motivation
you ever needed to kick the habit you’ve been trying to stop
for years.
Smoking during pregnancy has been linked with:
- Preterm birth
- Low birthweight
- Shorter length of newborn
- Cleft palate and cleft lip
- Smaller head
- Stillbirth
- SIDS
- Other infant illnesses
- Long-term intellectual and physical problems in baby
- Respiratory disease in newborn/child
If you’ve been smoking during your pregnancy, it’s
not too late to quit. Some studies show if you quit smoking before
the third month of pregnancy, you will be able to reduce the risk
to that of a non-smoker. Because of all of the risks associated
with cigarette smoke, as a non-smoker, you should avoid secondhand
smoke as well. Your partner should quit smoking to help promote
a healthy environment for you and the baby. By quitting smoking
and creating a smoke-free environment for your newborn infant, you’ll
be planning ahead to make your baby’s first days of life easy,
comfortable and healthy.
Don't use drugs. If
you use drugs for fun, stop now that you’re
pregnant. If you have a dependency, it may be more difficult for
you to cut out your drug use—but it’s essential. All
illegal drugs are harmful to your baby. They are foreign, and
in many cases toxic, substances you will be sharing with your
baby every time you put them into your body. Some women continue
to smoke marijuana throughout pregnancy because they believe
it’s less
harmful than cigarettes. Although marijuana does not produce the
same risks as cigarette smoke for pregnancy, it has its own slew
of health risks to contend with. Marijuana use during pregnancy
has been linked with:
- Excessive weight gain
- Severe vomiting
- Complicated labor and delivery
- Respiratory problems in the baby
- Birth defects or cancer in
the baby
- Symptoms similar to fetal alcohol syndrome
- Miscarriage
- Stillbirth
Most illegal drugs, including marijuana
and cocaine, cross the placenta—which
means they are shared with your baby.
Cocaine is particularly damaging to a
baby and can cause miscarriage, dangerous
bleeding, premature labor, stillbirth,
long-term health conditions, and even
addiction in the baby—the effects
of continual cocaine use on an unborn
child are plentiful. Every illegal drug
is bad for your pregnancy and can cause
serious health problems in your child.
If you can’t stop drug use immediately,
talk with your doctor or a counselor to
help you quit. It’s the least you
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